So we are currently staying at the in-laws house for a month under the previously-mentioned satanic Japanese tradition of satogaeri. I'm finally seeing the benefits of this way of doing things. First, we eat healthier than we probably would be if I was trying to put the meals together. Second, there is a third set of hands happy, no, brutishly insistent upon changing and caring for Linc. Third, and this is I think, the wider cultural phenomenon behind the tradition, it makes the husband quite eager to get back to work, no matter how crappy their job might be. <- (Please advise on how in the heck that sentence should have been punctuated)
Obviously from the lack of blog posts, we are busy maintaining a newborn human. I have to say, aside from the above paragraph and some sleep deprivation, I'm loving it. It is fantastic to see the little changes in Linc as he develops. An amazing development is that yesterday I laid him on his tummy to do a short round of neck-strengthening exercises and he managed, at 13 days old, to roll himself over on his back. My brother Johnny can't even do that yet.
Alright, I know I know, enough with the chit chat, get to the pictures already right?

Welcome back, and birthday dinner for Linc and UltraGirl

The placards for naming day. UltraGirl wrote these.

Linc in his crib with the naming placards.

Daddy and Linc at bathtime. He likes the bath.

Beautiful baby browns (with a shade of blue) with bottle.
Happy Birthday UltraGirl! May 4, 2008
I know in Japan we have already moved on to May 5th, but here in the USA it is still UltraGirl’s birthday. UltraAuntDebi, whose birthday is on May 3rd, and I were discussing the different time zones and decided, just to be safe, that we would celebrate our own birthdays for a week before and after the actual day. I think UltraGirl should do the same!
I know you already have what you have hoped for above all else, that perfect, adorable little Link, but I hope you also got some extra spoiling.
I’ve had a busy week, as usual, but I only have two more weeks of school left, so it should slow down some after that. I went to work at a different prison store on Friday, filling in for the regular storekeeper who is recovering from a knee replacement surgery. It was a 14 hour day, including the driving, and was the 3rd Friday I have done this. I probably have one left to go. Ironically, two weeks ago while working there, I hurt MY knee, and it is still giving me problems. I also have to check the MacGallery and Dynamic Duo website every hour or so (when a computer is available) for any updates or new pictures of Link, which takes a lot of time! Saturday, I drove to UltraDad’s house in Ruby Valley. UltraJimbo was already there, having driven up Thursday night. The guys spent Friday at Ultradad’s sister Kathy’s place (a ranch about 45 minutes away) hunting gophers. Per UltraDad’s request, I printed out an album full of Link pictures for his brag book.
Thinking about UltraGirl brings to mind the great time Heather and I had on our trip to Japan a year ago last December. The best part was getting to spend time with UltraGirl and get to know her a little better. As I was looking at some posts I wrote about our Japan adventures, I realized I never finished the narrative. So, in honor of UltraGirl’s birthday, I will write about one of the trip highlights I never got around to writing about, though I had good intentions: Hakone. But first, a disclaimer. I cannot seem to find any of the notes I wrote about the trip. I just reviewed my photos and did a little research on the web, but what you are mostly getting here are impressions and snatches of foggy memory. Feel free to correct any glaring inaccuracies, but also, cut me a little slack and creative license!
Hakone: Land of Hot Water and Black Eggs
We made the drive by car with ultra capable UltraBob at the wheel. The scenery was interesting and varied and I took a lot of semi-blurry ocean pictures out of my back seat car window. Perhaps some of you can recognize this and tell me what it is:
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I don’t know what town we were passing through, but a couple of building particularly caught my eye. One was the KathyMom Quilt shop. It would have been interesting to take a look inside.
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The KathyMom Quilt Shop
This is, of course, the Merry Chapel Christmas Hotel. I don’t think I have every seen anything quite so garish.
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I’m not really sure how long we drove, but I remember the road being quite steep as we drove up and up and up. And now we were seeing gorgeous hillsides in hues of red, green, yellow and orange. It definitely looked like Autumn, though the month was December. Perhaps that IS Autumn in Japan?
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We walked on Owakundani Trail (at least that is what the sign in one of my photos calls it), winding along through an otherwordly sparsely forested hilly scene of bubbling hot pools and steam rising out of the ground. The signs instructed us to ‘keep left’, which I had a hard time remembering to do at times. In America, of course, we drive on the RIGHT side of the road. As we walked and climbed, I became aware of a whirring sound. I turned around to see that UltraBob had whipped out his razor and was shaving. It’s nice to have such an accommodating razor that will let you shave anywhere, but I still found this an odd choice of time and location for this grooming activity.
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Be careful if you have a medical condition!
Our destination was the hot spring shack to get some hard boiled eggs. These special eggs were boiled directly in the hot springs in special vats. The minerals in the water turned the egg shells quite black. At this very touristy location, we joined a long line of folks waiting to buy 6-packs of these eggs, the eating of which was said to increase your lifespan by 7 years. We joined the crowds cracking our eggs on black-shell-shard littered tables and passed the salt before consuming our, hopefully, life-extending eggs. They were quite good.
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Egg Boiling Vats
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Not really sure what they're trying to tell us here…
After some lunch, we made our way to Yunessun to sample for ourselves the delights of the hot springs. At Yunessun, we were issued a wrist band and an assigned locker, where we stashed our clothes and belongings as we changed to swim suits. The wrist bands could be used as credit cards of sorts, and eliminated the need to carry cash for purchasing snacks from vending machines or food stands. As one site put it “spending money was never easier!” You just settle up and the end when you check out. I didn’t actually take many pictures here, and I have lost my cheat sheet telling me how to insert links, so I suggest you check out this website by the cut and paste method.
http://www.yunessun.com/english/location.html
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We had a wonderful time sampling the themed, outdoor hot pools. One was filled with red wine, another with green tea. Heather and I enjoyed laying out on heated stones. I had to get my courage up to leave one pool long enough to walk to the next one. It was a little chilly out of the water. There were some gigantic pools inside, Mediterranean in style, complete with jets and musical light shows at intervals. After we had our fill of that, it was time for the Onsen, or more traditional Japanese bathing, without the cumbersome swim suits. I believe this part was called Mori NO YU (from the website) and featured (thank goodness!) separate bathing areas for men and women.
UltraBob had to go it alone as Heather, UltraGirl and I made our way to the women’s side. Heather and I were glad we had UltraGirl to show us how it was done. First we washed ourselves completely, including our hair, in special outdoor showers. Then, armed with a small hand towel, we were off to the baths. The towels, UltraGirl showed us, could be used to cover strategic body parts while walking from bath to bath. While in the hot pools, you could tie or lay the towel on your head, but you were not supposed to get it wet. Of course that was one of the first things I did as I tipped my head too far having already forgotten the soft terry cloth rectangle balanced there.
I found this experience to be relaxing and invigorating at the same time, and is one I would not have liked to miss. I found one spot I especially liked where I could lay back, feeling the cool nighttime air on my face while my unencumbered body soaked in the stony pool’s hot mineral water, The dimmed lights and soft music helped in creating this peaceful atmosphere. I even kind of forgot about UltraGirl and Heather for a few moments as they moved on to try out other pools.
In time, we met back up with UltraBob, whom I assume was having a relaxing time of his own. UltraGirl and I got completely dressed, but UltraBob and Heather seemed loath to part with their stylish spa robes.
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I really like the way many Japanese restaurants graphically display their menu choices in the window, complete with prices. You can see just what each menu option looks like and what it will cost you before deciding what to order. Another good thing: no tipping. After another, in a long line of, delicious meal, we headed back to the Ultras home. In just a few days, it would be time to leave.
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UltraGirl, I hope you have enjoyed seeing Japan through my eyes. The next time I come, I will have something even more exciting to see and get to know: my little grandson, Link. I know you and UltraBob will be wonderful parents. Happy Birthday, my sweet daughter.
Much Love,
UltraMom
The best part was getting to spend time with UltraGirl and get to know her a little better.
Hey!
The first photo looks like the end of Kamakura beach maybe, and KathyMom is in Kamakura. I think you are missing the Hotel Chapel Christmas photo there matey.
What is not to understand?
P.S. It puts the lotion on its skin.
"Missing photo of Merry Chapel Christmas Hotel"? I don't know what you are talking aboot, laddie, eh?"
I understand "Combined Sales" and "Garbage in the bag. Let's Make Hakone beautiful" but
"It will have it in two days on the day?" and "the pain becomes early if it outs it in the plastic bag?" To me it loses something in the translation....like the meaning.
And of course the second best part of the visit was getting to spend time with UltraBob and getting to know HIM better again:)
Gah, now I really want to go to Japan and soak in those pools. I would think the green tea bath would make you 7 years younger too with all those antioxidants.
I assume the UltraFamily is bringing us all longevity in the form of black life-extending eggs when they come visit in November?
Thanks for the great post mom. That was a really great time and I had a lot of fun taking a stroll down memory lane. Hope your birthday was great Tomoko. Bob, I must insist on more pictures of my little nephew.
I green tea bath sounds awesome!! I wonder if they have spas like that over here.
Yes, I agree the marvels of the Orient are many, so day I plan to chronicle my journeys in Japan in a book called "The travels of Marco Polo II: The Nihon Saga"
Not only do UltraGirl and Link get out of the hospital today, but UltraGirl turns older than UltraBob again. Please join me in wishing her a very happy birthday.
Special guest mentions to UltraAuntDebi, Andrew, and Tod. Happy birthday to all of you too.
Happy birthday UltraGirl!!
Happy Birthday UltraGirl/UltraMommy!
Happy Birthday UltraGirl!!!!! I hope UltraBob spoils you rotton!!!
I was just thinking about UltraGirl's birthday today! Of course here, it is a day later. Have a very happy birthday, sweet UltraGirl.
Love,
UltraMom
I actually got confused by it being slightly after midnight and screwed up. The birthday starts in 6 minutes.
Happy birthday UltraGirl! I'll put an extra candle on Tod's cake in your honor tonight. Have a great day at home with the family!
Hi everyone.
Thanks a lot for all the wonderful birthday wishes. I'm sorry it took me so long to get on and reply. I had a very nice birthday though I'm still a bit out of sorts. UB spoiled me a little, but promised a more complete spoiling when I feel more up to it.
Here is a playlist containing all the video I posted below except the google video clip. There is also a bonus clip from today that doesn't have it's own post in there. I just thought it might make it more convenient.
Link has the cutest smile! I loved watching the videos of him.
I love the videos of the three of you together. They are very touching. Part of me wishes those first few days together would go on forever, but there's so much fun ahead I guess that would be silly. They are precious though...
Here is the stuff we got early in our stay.
Link spent the second half of his second day in the nursery. Here is video I took for his Mommy because she couldn't leave her room, and I wanted her to be able to watch him.
How precious. Do they always play music in the nursery?
The music is in the hallway not in the nursery, and it is nice music, but a bit loud in my humble opinion.

I love the pics, and I am quite jealous that the other grandmother gets to hold, bathe and kiss little Link while I have to do it all vicariously:(
I'll have to do mine all at once! Keep those posts and pictures coming.
UltraGrandma Kathy
Those name placards are beautiful. Link is too cute. I can see some resemblance to him and his UltraGrandma McDonald in one of the pics. We're glad you are all doing well. Give Link a kiss for us.